Was listening to one of 同恩's song named 一个人遗憾。I especially like the chorus as it was meaningful. It goes
一刹那无奈 好过一次次失败
一点点愉快 要用一生来感慨
一个人失败 好过被世界推开
when i heard the first sentence, it seems to reflect on what B make me realise by making my status as a hi bye fren....i felt helpless...helpless as i was not given a chance to make a choice.....maybe chances are given, but not literally...i guess in life, there are always chances here and there. BUt it really takes the brilliant eye and clear brain to spot things at times. Guess i din spot the warning signs in time and the volcano erupts....
somehow the three sentences seem to reflect things in life...at times, little happiness are not spotted in time and one will only realise one day, suddenly. when that happens, prolly years have passed and looking back, you will realise that i should realise that long ago and enjoy the happiness there and then. Realising the 'mistake', you will regret, sigh, on how we can miss out such minor details to brighten one's life.
Failure, happens all the times to human. At times, we should be thankful that we failed before. When one falls, he will realise or should realise the mistake and take note to prevent future happenings. It's fortunate that each of us fail once, fortunate that you realise that you are wrong, that someone tell you of your mistake, that people bother to tell you your mistake, rather than them ignoring you. THe feeling of being ignored is bad, it's a feeling of failure. Can make one helpless and hurt their ego.
I guess, no one is perfect. It's ok to fall at times. But very important that someone pull you out from the quicksand and highlight and guide you along. These people are important people. They can be your parents, close frens, relatives etc.
So if you meet such person, be thankful
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