Went to fling last week and it was the first time that i've seen the gang since the email. I've manage to curb my urge to complain about work, intentionally and prolly because im not working on that day.
Anyway, fern was very interested to know my after event thoughts of b's email. My conclusion. It's good i complain less but nevertheless, the only thing that has not changed is, i still do not think that the way it is brought across to me is appreciated or tactful although i do not think much of it now. Thanks but no thanks. We all have to be tactful in how we voice out out thoughts to others. In the way i've complained about work, yes, too negative. But in trying to bring your goodwill opinions to others require tactfulness as well. Needs to match the person's character.
But i've learnt a lesson and understand my frens' character better now. Wz and B belongs to a gang. Fern and B belongs to another gang. Me? Question mark.......
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