A new beginning as i've ended my 5 year relationship with BC. I'm sad that a 5 year relationship did not turn out as expected, but glad that i've finally made a decision about it. Like Sis say, be it good or bad, no one can comment except the both of us. I'm actually glad and relieved about making a decision, a decision i should have made long ago (not necessary the same ending as today). Due to procrastination, comfort and many factors, we slowly slip out of each other's lives. I acknowledge the truth in Shawna's statement. "Its ok to have different interests, but its the other quality time spent together that matters". The other quality time did not happen to us, at least that's what i feel. We drifted.
Hence, with my logical state of mind, i told myself that it really did not matter if he changed, cos if he did, he's not him. And him changing is not the solution. It could be due to personality incompatible or wrong time, wrong place. Whatever.
I know he's very upset, as he never expected this. But i think this is the best way. We had our own perspective of each other, something that slowly got us irritated in a way or another. It's not healthy.
I've made up my mind. I need to move on. I need a break.
I'll survive the singlehood and try to save as much tears.
God bless bc and me, separately.
Thank you friends for showing your concern.
Officially, i'm now single.
4 comments:
Gal, Welcome to the Single club! No pun intended, glad that u made a decision & save yourself from further agony but also kinda sad for u cos it is afterall a 5 yrs relationship. Nevertheless, let's look forward to the future.
& yes, I am still working @ 4.14am. :(
ms chee... it muz have been hard for u to break it up to him as well as for him to accept. as much as the discovery (of incompatible, wrong time, drifted etc) came later but better late then never. Welcome to Singlehood and check out shuai ge whenever u can! lol.... be happy that you dont have to zhu dong or need to consider the feelings or someone else in whatever u do anymore...lol
i didn't realise that the conversation i have with you were days before this decision.
Glad to hear that there's movement forward, and who knows? At the right timing, at the right place, the right person would appear. Could even be him again, but let's not go that route.
Be strong, things can only get better from now on.
Thanks all for the concern.
I'll be strong.
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