Got Sabotage by my team members.....A lesson learnt

Sigh, its Bernard (BW) case again.

In short, someone in my team told BW that i wasn't alone when i called BW yesterday. Got a shock when BW called me this morning. Told me that he is very upset and that i set up a 'trap' for him to fall in.

It all happened when he sms me yesterday that he wanted to have a change of team and conveniently exclude Linda (YL)who's in his current team.

I felt that they both have Xin1 Jie2. So i talk to Elisa (ET) and YL in the morning to find out more. ET being on good terms with BW told me the many things that BW told her. YL was ok with BW and just not pleased with the certain things that he do.

Afterwhich, it seems BW was eagerly trying to know what is happening as ET has told BW that she has told me everything and he better be honest.

So thinking that the team is very affected by BW's constant sms and call, i pn all to ask them to refer BW to me if he needs to know anything. Then i ask, "who has spoken to BW?" Knowing that someone did, i ask. However, no one has enough guts to admit. I really dunno what's wrong with letting me know but yah, Rayve (RC) finally admitted through pn that he spoke to BW.

Afterwhich, i called BW. As i was sitting near to my team, it wasnt convenient to tok to him. I then went to a conference room to do that and ask Shelby (KS) to sit in as well. I wanted KS to understand this thing and noe what is wrong. Janise (JC) came in to speak to me. And hence, the '3' of us called BW. He only knows that its me in the room and that throughout the conversation, he did ask me once if there was anyone beside too. I said no, as i din tell him then so i shouldnt admit.

This prove to be a bad choice as he started to say things about YL and JC and JC was in the room!

The conversation was started with the intention to know what is wrong with YL and him and i was really caught by surprise when he started to tok about JC and YL....

Die.

He called me this morning to tell me he's VERY upset that i set a trap for him.

I spend 2 hours toking to him to resolve this thing.

It's amazing how things turn and went out of hand.

A lesson learnt. Things should be more transparent and i guess my worst mistake is to let JC stay in the room to listen.

Hope everything is fine on Monday when he's back from his leave. But DUN LET ME FIND OUT THE CULPRIT. I'll "kill" him for causing unneccessary trouble!