Man......Some really hopeless

Making such a statement might sound that im being too extreme, but it's true.

I've seen a man, got into trouble and claim to do things for our good. Just like in movies, that always happen when a man of the house get into trouble, financially, and always say "i do it for the family"

To me, its your choice. We all have a choice. And its not honorable to claim and assume whatever one do is for the good of the other person unless you have asked that person, if that is what he/she wants.

Lame.

I've seen how the same man, can strike a lottery, claim to give the family each some money as savings only to finish all he has won in a year, ended in big trouble and then asked that the money be returned with interest cause there and then, he has left the money to us to earn interest only. Bullshit. He can still earn interest by leaving all his cash in his OWN bank.

I"ve seen how this man can make a big fuss insisting that i bank my first busary into his bank to pay his studies and only to find in months or a year later, that he took that money for his personal use and claim that he used it for his emergency. Bullshit

I've seen how this man change from being pitiful about taking the money that his wife have kept at home cause he needs the money, to "you go report police lor", he exclaims.

I've heard of how this man, ask money from his mother who is not working and poor while he slept most of the time in a day, go womanising (I saw the photos), claims that his friends treats him better than his family, claims that he rather take care of a dog than his family cos a dog will wag his tail when it sees the owner returns and many more....

I'm tired of his nonsense and will only know 1 thing. That no matter how much i know he did for us when we are younger or older, the negative things that he does will always remain in my heart, in a corner. Same as my relationship, whatever he do will not change things, now.....

I secretly hope that he can be happier and if leaving us makes him feel happier and he can survive, i hope he make this choice. Better for both sides