Today, had a little gathering with Adelyn, ah Biao and Jiaen.....Nikki and Jing was supposed to come as well but in the end, the former said something crop up and latter had to go for a rehearsal for her tomorrow's gig....sigh....
poor JE had to wait for 2 hours! i was caught up with the hotel reception and A was caught in a jam. RB called to say he will be late and soo all of us was late. It was a fun filled session with all the sharing about LS, KP, E, KW gossip and not forgetting SM. well, other than JE, all of us know about the gossips in tb, so for the one hour or so, it was a poor tb bitching session....
and i realised something about the people working for M. they are people who might package their words and present it nicely to the audience. It takes time to digest and truly decipher their meaning and whether they meant what they say. And for me, took 1 and half year of searching before i decided that hey, this place is not gonna fulfil my dreams....i'm getting out of it....
and i'm glad i did....God bless.....
FF msg me to ask me to give her a hug tmr....huh? what happen? checked out her blog and realised its about Shifu...well, Shifu is preparing to buy a ring....i guess the moment has come. The moment where she knows will come one day and this day will not be a pleasant and easy day. I guess in life, there's really a difference between expected and when something really happens as per expected. When something expected really happens, its like driving a nail right into your heart..."you nailed it!!!" It's painful.....
But i believe that at least, the ending and direction is clear. both parties know that finally, our uncertainty has come to an end. It's a relief at times. Look at things positively and you will see the light.
Ended the day taking a train with JE back together. She is in a new relationship 2 months old where both she and her bf are first timers. I've shared my experience an dknowledge about BGR with her...i think, when a relationship is fresh, everything appears to be fresh, nice, sweet, can be forgiven and understandable. But after 24months spent together, the relationship is infused with different components. The consideration for each party is still there, but most importantly, there are certain things that guys and gals need to understand about each other.
First important theory----Guys and Gals are really different. In terms of physical, mentally, spiritually and all....guys can be stone at times and need constant nagging and pointers to understand the gals' needs.
For me, i think gals are simple. you just have to understand that gals need constant loving, care and concern. Paise her when she doll up, give model answers at times and etc. see? easy right? hahaha
For guys, give them face at times and let them feel that they are in charge. I guess its an ego thing but giving them such 'benefits' are ok at times but at a considerable and acceptable level. TOo much of it will get their head swell. They are 'straight' beings where gals need to be direct at times. Tell them straight in the face what you want and of cos, to note the tone. Still need to give them face....aiyo...
anyway, i think today, i had an interesting gathering. Filled with fun, joy and laughter. It's a miracle how one gathering can turn out.
If you are being asked to attend a gathering, i would suggest to all to attend as one never knows what you will get out of it......
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