Loss at words?

Spoke to him when he gave me a drive to office that day.

"Me and sis have decided to help you pay for the housing instalments"

Totally unprepared, I was shocked at his reaction over the statement i made

"Y must pay them? i have no money now. pay later. especially when they include the late payment charges and the interest on it, i would not even want to pay!"

huh? Am i hearing things? Don't you owe them money? and they are wrong for charging you a late fee? Aren't he suppose to be grateful and just say thanks? Is it that hard to say thank you?

I told him, "i don't care if you like it or not. But that will be it."

"How do you pay them?" i asked further

"there's a book. I go there to pay"

"Im not going there with the book to pay. I'll just go the the automated SAM machine. Or online..", crazy, i thought. Im not gonna spend my time to go there to pay.

He make such a fuss over it. Help to pay and yet must do it his way. Ridiculous

He MUST be informed if you pay on his behalf. Else, be prepared for a scolding.

Some people are just stubborn.

And im just helping by making sure he has a roof to stay. And we are prepared if he do not give us any money back if they were to sell the house one day. What to do.

Im just glad that this episode is closed. No matter how unwilling i want to do it, because it adds to my burden, i just want to make sure i have a roof to stay.

This might not be the best way, cos the emotional stress is still there staying under the same roof, but its the only way i can cover my relunctantness to move, and guarantee his shelter.

Thanks sis.