We were talking about the HK show on channel u. I proudly proclaimed to her, "See, your 2 gals never give you much problems k. We are good girls."
"yah, but you will get married too. My partner not as good"
"No choice, think of it, if you were not with him, you might not have us. You gain some and lose some..."
She suddenly talk about making a will or do up something. I said, "Leave money for me lor.."
Guess what the reply is.
"Im not leaving u and him money. Your money will be in a trust. I know you will give him money and i've decided i've given him enuff help"
My heart sank. Not on the fact that she is not leaving me money, but she is questioning the fact that im supporting him when he does not bother to look for a job. My god, do i really have a choice. If he doesnt get a job, am i suppose to see him starve, let him nag and stress me emotionally. If it was that easy to get him to go find a job, he would have been working now.
My logic is simple. He doesnt drive, he doesnt get into debt. If he doesnt work and i can afford to give him more, i save unforseen trouble. Though i know im spoiling him, but can i really not give him money? I've known him all my 28years. I know his pattern. I'm just paying silently for a hope that he doesnt get into trouble, and put his knowledge to good and non irritable way.
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